Thursday, January 21, 2010

I don't have much cancer stuff to report today.  The port is no fun, but will get better as it heals.  It's just under my collar bone on the right side, between that and my weak left arm, I'm not much help!  I can hold the baby as long as she's facing out and I can carry her with my right arm.

I spent about 3 hours at the care center where my dad is.  Hospice was there when I got there and they said he won't make it through the weekend.  Everything is shutting down, just exactly as they would expect.  He is in a coma now, so we're just waiting for his body to give out.  It's been quite a week.

I see another oncologist tomorrow, Dr. Prystas.  I'm not going to shop around any more, I'll just tell her what I want in case it's different from what she wants to do.  I've heard really good things about her, my surgeon and my plastic surgeon both recommended her (among others), so that is where I will settle.  She's closer to home too, so that will make it easier for everyone when I need a driver.  I'll share the details tomorrow. 

I went to the gym tonight, but didn't get much exercise in because people wanted updates.  It's funny how when you go the same time every day, you tend to get to know people!  I had a guy tell me I've got three things going for me.  1- I'm young.  2- I'm in good shape.  3- I've got red hair.  : )   Yep, it's gonna be OK!!!  Thank you for your continued prayers!  We love you!

1 comment:

Anonymous said...

Hi Kim - Just want to let you know you are loved. I have been thinking alot about you. Hospice is great. They were so good with me and my family when my Dad was ill. They know just what to do and what to say. I know how difficult it is to sit with your Father and watch. Tell him that you love him and respect his wishes. It is okay to let go. I have felt guilty that I have not been of much help. I want to bring you dinner. I have a rehearsal Friday and a concert Saturday. I will call to see what I can do. I have something for Mat (for school) that I hope will be of assistance. You and yours are loved! Laurie and Janes.